Advent candles flickering toward hope, peace, joy and finally love have been lit. We are two millennia past and two days away from love’s story.
Now, a story about stories.
It used to be we were limited to understanding the world and its people by where we lived and who we knew. B.I. (before internet) we were limited in knowledge to the dictionaries and encyclopedias we could access. We knew only the stories told on famous radio programs, a handful of television shows, and a limited number of books depending upon the ingenuity of the local librarian.
Long ago, Abraham Lincoln made time each morning to hear people’s stories. Franklin Delano Roosevelt did not read headlines of the newspapers he collected from across the country each day. He read editorials in order to understand people’s stories.
Now, you and I live in a land of innumerable stories. They fall into your lap each day. We are not limited to understanding the world and its people by a limited number of sources. But this is what we do when we depend on the news or your Facebook feed to tell stories. Stories need to be told by the bearers of the stories.
I’ve learned about the world and its people through stories, not the news. Ta Nehisi-Coates and Ibram X. Kendi taught me my micro-contributions to racism. Glennon Doyle helped me understand bulimia and addiction. Kristin Howerton gave me language for adoption and families with kids of different colors. Joel Stein visited folks in Roberts County, Texas and folks at elite conferences at ski resorts to teach me how America reached the unlikely conclusion to elect Donald Trump in 2016. Malcolm Gladwell, a storytelling wizard, blew my mind with his collection of stories that make sense of why violence befalls our black and brown siblings in Christ in shameful proportion to whites. Ada Calhoun listened to the stories of so many women in my generation and then broke the news to us that feminism did not free us to do everything all at once.
Stories are how we understand each other. They open a door to mingle in each others truths so that we might become a bit truer ourselves. Stories, when told so bravely, crack open love for one another.
Two millennia ago and two days from now, love became a story. It’s the story we tell about a starry night and a desperate couple. We tell the story freely and often, but we miss the love unleashed in it. Perhaps this year you might hear it differently. The story is not a love story, but love’s story, calling us to see love in all our stories.
Lisa Lewton 